How hard we try to justify ourselves Is this the answer to the question we all seek? We, as humans attempt to force, yes I mean force, others to understand who we are…We so desperately attempt to want others to know “US”, How we are so Great, Well, Loving, Healthy…I could go on and on. We, in an attempt to achieving a feeling of belonging force ourselves on others…and by doing so, we allow them to do our bidding for us…Why??? Because We FEAR TO DO THE BIDDING OURSELVES!!! This can be as simple as asking a friend to send a text for you because you are to fearful to do it yourself because the guy or girl you like is seeing someone else, using words and psychological manipulation to get what we need and want for our own purpose. This is our human side of all of us…perfectly imperfect. Our intent is to be playful, not thinking of the Whole Picture, what happens when this guy or girl gets the text? what happen when he or she is manipulating there current partner in an attempt to “try things out with you” …the mind starts thinking and the body follows that puts into motion our actions…THE TRICKLE EFFECT, a simple text altered some guy or girl emotions, which may hurt others down the line…setting energy in motion…could cause such harm to someone you dont even know.
I have come to understand that in life we can do anything based on two options. The First is FEAR.

One may base a decision on fear. We fear pain, discipline, abuse, relationships, new job, acceptance of who we really are…this fear starts rolling and laughing, spitting fire and hatred out, attracting mountains upon mountains of Fear based energy, rolling slowing at first like a marble rolling freely across a clean surface, as it is moving it is collecting MORE AND MORE OF WHAT IS LIKE A THE MOST TERRIFYING “FEAR” IMAGINABLE..GROWING IN ENORMOUS SIZE..yes, this is voice that follows you and whispers in your ear creating doubt, disgust, anger, hate and resentment. This is the outcome of making choices, decisions, and well it can be applied to all facets in life…we ALL know who this FEAR IS…he is the the monster waiting to take you, it does not matter who you are, your beliefs, sexuality and so on FEAR is waiting to TAKE YOU…he sits persistently in the concur of the room just waiting for that right moment to creep in and create a path of mass fear attracting more fear into your life! You will then be suffocated with people, bills, emotions, things, so on and so on…all attracted FEAR!
The Next is LOVE…Now if it is true that fear attracts more fear, then it is also true that LOVE ATTRACTS MORE LOVE…Yes, even if you allow yourself to love what is hard, miserable, toxic, hated, tortured …yes, really raw pain CAN BE wrapped it in a glow of the purest LOVE SOURCE EVER KNOWN here and throughout, it will attract more positive. That pain, weather it is from addiction, obesity, abuse, nonacceptance or loss. Whatever the source of this pain is it deserves to be acknowledged, it has been waiting to be nurtured by YOU, IT’S BEEN WAITING FOR YOU! Does that wound not deserve to be wrapped in Love and light to attract more and more love will offer a cleansing of that painful wound, it can no be bandaged and care for once and for all and be HEALED FINALLY!
We live in such a fear based world one often does get to see the beauty we were created for OLD AND NEW ways do just about anything is a choice…Today I choose to put fear behind me and walk with PURE LOVE

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My name is Kristie. My story begins with my eyes opening, yes I was so blinded by my environment that the TRUE ME could not be seen, it was quietly swept under the mat...and kept there for a very long time. I am a Girl, just a regular Girl. I was born in Mesa, AZ when the desert was seen for miles and miles, before the buildings took there place. My back yard gate opened up to a desert field with trees, bushes and light, dusty dirt. I made many forts as a child in that was a place for me to go...sometimes I would sneak out the house just in time to open that back gate and with my little night gown still on and bare feet and walk in to the open field to watch the wonderous sun rise over the Superstition Mountains. It was amazing. I grew up and graduated high school in Arizona, went to college and graduated...I had no Idea at 44 years old how my life would change. Life is Challenge, a lesson, an understanding and a Gift...I can only hope that readers will find themselves and find that Gift through the process of change....


  1. Thank you. This Blog reached me in a deep way. I’m a true believer in the universe will put things in your path when you need. I needed this…


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